Cover your head and shut your mouth
buildontherock
2025-12-08

T here is a tradition among Christians of quoting Paul to Timothy and Paul to the Corinthians to justify a policy of Cover your head and shut your mouth for women in the Church. Is this position biblically accurate? 1 Corinthians 14:34-35 [KJV] Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.[35] And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church and to Timothy , 1 Timothy 2:11-12 [KJV] Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.[12] But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence . If it is then we have a bit of a problem because the same Paul says in Galatians 3:28-29 [KJV] There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.[29] And if ye be Christ's, then are ye Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise . So then which is it? Is Paul prone to saying what is convenient for the Particular occasion or have we missed something?

Some things are ridiculous and we should know it, but somehow when somebody in authority says it then it suddenly becomes doctrine. Women cannot pray with their heads uncovered therefore Eve never prayed until she learned to make hats, and even though God knew that she needed hat-help He let her approach Him all that time in the garden mute and never even made her a bonnet of sheep skin when she eventually had to leave the garden. It's amazing!

What is a Church?

Perhaps we should begin by clarifying what God's Church is and what in Church is. From what I said above Adam and Eve meeting God in the garden could not have been the Church of course. Or maybe Eve, who was not afraid to talk to the serpent, was so scared of God that she never uttered a word in His presence? So the first time that God heard Eve speak was in Genesis 3:13. I really don't think so. And God had this opinion of women then why would He speak to the inferior subjugated woman when the husband was right there? To skip to the end and relieve the suspense I propose that Matthew gave the answer to what in Church is.

Matthew 18:20 [KJV] For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.

What God's Church is takes a bit longer to explain.

Church in the New Testament

The first time that we see the word Church in the English Bible is in Matthew 16 where Christ explains that He will build His Church on Himself, a tremendous immovable object.

Matthew 16:18 [KJV] And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.

In Matthew 18 Christ went on to demonstrate that it is a body of people by showing that they can provide a verdict on a member (Matthew 18:17). In Acts 2:47 It was added to, In Acts 5:11 we see that it was afraid. We find Churches at Jerusalem (Acts 8:1), Cenchrea (Romans 16:1), at Corinth (1 Corinthians 1:2) and more. It was in the house of Priscilla and Aquila at Rome Romans 16:3, the house of Nymphas in Laodicea (Collossians 4:15) and elsewhere. It greets people (Romans 16:23) and is itself greeted (Romans 16:5). It has been persecuted (1 Corinthians 15:9) and edified (1 Corinthians 14:4). Christ gave himself for it (Ephesians 5:25) and is where He lives (1 Timothy 3:15). It is defined in 1 Corinthians.

1 Corinthians 1:2 [KJV] Unto the church of God which is at Corinth, to them that are sanctified in Christ Jesus, called to be saints, with all that in every place call upon the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, both theirs and ours:

The Church did not begin in the New Testament but in the Old.

The Church in the wilderness

The Bible clearly shows us that there was a Church in the Old Testament. The First Church that we know of is the entire nation of Israel.

Acts 7:37-39 [KJV] This is that Moses, which said unto the children of Israel, A prophet shall the Lord your God raise up unto you of your brethren, like unto me; him shall ye hear. 38 This is he, that was in the church in the wilderness with the angel which spake to him in the mount Sina, and with our fathers: who received the lively oracles to give unto us: 39 To whom our fathers would not obey, but thrust him from them, and in their hearts turned back again into Egypt,

The definitions that are given in this document are taken from Mickelson's Enhanced Strong's Greek and Hebrew Dictionaries unless otherwise indicated. The meaning of the word church itself in Greek tells us part of the story

G1577 ekklesia (ek-klay-see'-ah) n.
1. (properly) a "calling out"
2. (concretely) a called out assembly of citizens
3. (specifically, of Christ) the community of the Redeemed of Christ whether being on earth or in heaven or both
{used only of people, not a location, structure, etc. Of Christ, used only of the Redeemed, not of the unredeemed in their midst}

The emphasis above is mine. Then we can see from the extract what made them God's Church: they were given the oracles of God. The Church is not the Temple. That may seem obvious but in many arguments the structure in the Church is compared to the structure in the Temple and what was required in the Temple is seen as a requirement for the Church. For example because the High Priest represented Christ and was always male, then it is assumed that since leaders in the New Testament Church are a type of Christ too then they must all be male. That is not the case. God's Church is not the people assembled in a room or the building itself it is all of the people of God but when a group of two or more are together they represent the whole. If you want to limit it to a specific group then you must qualify the word with something like at Ephesus.

Leadership in the Old Testament ekklesia was given to judges by God. He hand picked who was best for the job and was not at all pleased when the people clamoured for a king (1 Samuel 8) under Samuel, who was the last judge.

The Church is the People of God

What Church means has become a bit more expanded in the New Testament but the fundamental meaning is the same, i.e. separated people. In the Old Testament it was always the entire nation of Israel. In the New Testament the Church is often identified by adding the place where the disciples live. We have for example the Church at Corinth. I have not found a citing where the church cannot be interpreted as the people although some choose to interpret it as the building for their own purposes. One of these situations is when they want to support women not speaking in Church. If we allow the meaning of a building to be accepted then we give them some perspective from which to justify their argument but, as was quoted when introducing the paper, that is never the intended meaning of the word.

Old Testament Prophetesses

Prophets and prophetesses have been a constant feature of the Church whether Old Testament or New. What is a prophetess? Let us backtrack a bit. Miriam is most infamous for complaining about Moses' black wife. That story is found in Numbers 12 and we also find there a description of what a prophet is.

Numbers 12:6 [KJV] And he said, Hear now my words: If there be a prophet among you, I the LORD will make myself known unto him in a vision, and will speak unto him in a dream.

Prophets/prophetesses were therefore the ones whom God spoke to in visions and dreams. So then how did everybody else know if they did not teach them what the encounter meant, because God would have only revealed the meaning to a prophet alone?

Amos 3:6-8 [KJV] Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it? 7 Surely the Lord GOD will do nothing, but he revealeth his secret unto his servants the prophets. 8 The lion hath roared, who will not fear? the Lord GOD hath spoken, who can but prophesy?

A prophetess is simply a female prophet. God speaks to the prophet and the prophet speaks on behalf of God.

Exodus 7:1-2 [KJV] And the LORD said unto Moses, See, I have made thee a god to Pharaoh: and Aaron thy brother shall be thy prophet. 2 Thou shalt speak all that I command thee: and Aaron thy brother shall speak unto Pharaoh, that he send the children of Israel out of his land.

Seer and prophet mean the same and is the person that people went to when they wanted to ask God anything.

1 Samuel 9:9 [KJV] (Beforetime in Israel, when a man went to enquire of God, thus he spake, Come, and let us go to the seer: for he that is now called a Prophet was beforetime called a Seer.)

It was the person whom God used to inform His people of His intentions (Amos 3:7) and in terms of gifts is only preceded by apostles.

Ephesians 4:11 [KJV] And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
1 Corinthians 12:28 [KJV] And God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily prophets, thirdly teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, governments, diversities of tongues.

So we are not talking about a down-the-line role. In any group of Christians the word and credibility of a female prophet would be far superior than the average man, but for practical purposes it would not generally have been prudent to send a woman as an apostle especially to perform the duties of the twelve.

Miriam

Now that incident in Numbers 12 is used by some to indicate that Miriam had no significance with God and was just an also-ran but that is not what God says. It is the exact opposite. God had to do something about Miriam because she spoke for Him and so her statement would be seen as His.

Micah 6:4 [KJV] For I brought thee up out of the land of Egypt, and redeemed thee out of the house of servants; and I sent before thee Moses, Aaron, and Miriam.

Miriam was used to guide Israel, it is just that Moses was such a hard act to follow. All three of them have prominent roles. Wikipedia says at captioned Rabbinical_commentary one the subject of Hur the companion of Moses:

According to Rabbinic tradition, Hur was the son of Miriam, thus Moses and Aaron's nephew. The Talmud (Sanhedrin 69b & Sotah 11b) states that Caleb, a descendant from Judah, married Miriam and fathered Hur. This is based on the Targum to I Chron. 2:19: "...and Caleb took for himself Ephrath and she bore him Hur". Ephrath was another name for Miriam. Rashi's Bible commentary justifies this position on the two other locations in Exodus where Hur is mentioned: 17:10 & 24:14. However, Josephus in Antiquities of the Jews states that Hur was the husband of Moses' sister Miriam.[10] editors of WikipediaHur (Bible)Wikipedia, the free encyclopediahttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hur_(Bible)00:01, 31 October 2025

Miriam was a very significant woman.

Exodus 15:20-21 [KJV] And Miriam the prophetess, the sister of Aaron, took a timbrel in her hand; and all the women went out after her with timbrels and with dances. 21 And Miriam answered them, Sing ye to the LORD, for he hath triumphed gloriously; the horse and his rider hath he thrown into the sea.

Did she have to wait on Moses' instructions? The story of Miriam is important because of how closely God was relating to the Church at that time. He was just starting up and did not allow His values to be corrupted. He dealt harshly with infractions.

Exodus 32:25-29 [KJV] And when Moses saw that the people were naked; (for Aaron had made them naked unto their shame among their enemies:) 26 Then Moses stood in the gate of the camp, and said, Who is on the LORD'S side? let him come unto me. And all the sons of Levi gathered themselves together unto him. 27 And he said unto them, Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, Put every man his sword by his side, and go in and out from gate to gate throughout the camp, and slay every man his brother, and every man his companion, and every man his neighbour. 28 And the children of Levi did according to the word of Moses: and there fell of the people that day about three thousand men. 29 For Moses had said, Consecrate yourselves to day to the LORD, even every man upon his son, and upon his brother; that he may bestow upon you a blessing this day.

Now God did not condemn Miriam for speaking in the Church but for speaking against Moses. There is no law or instruction given to nip this in the bud so that women should not speak, even though this incident happened at the beginning of the Church with God up front and centre.

Deborah

Now let us look at the story of Deborah to see if it says what is popularly repeated i.e. that the only reason why Deborah was a judge and prophet is because men would not do the job. Now to me that is like saying that the only reason why a woman won the race is that the men were slower. It seems to stick in people's throat to say that she was the best, full stop. God chose by ability not gender.

Judges 4:4 [KJV] And Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lapidoth, she judged Israel at that time.

Deborah was a judge, in fact the fourth judge in Israel (Judges 4:1-5:31). Now let me say a bit about judges; God is king and he gave earthly responsibility to represent His rule over to judges.

H8199 shaphat (shaw-fat') v.
1. to judge, i.e. pronounce sentence (for or against)
2. (by implication) to vindicate or punish
3. (by extenssion) to govern
(passively, literally or figuratively) to litigate

The primary responsibility of judges was to deliver Israel.

Judges 2:14-16 [KJV] And the anger of the LORD was hot against Israel, and he delivered them into the hands of spoilers that spoiled them, and he sold them into the hands of their enemies round about, so that they could not any longer stand before their enemies. 15 Whithersoever they went out, the hand of the LORD was against them for evil, as the LORD had said, and as the LORD had sworn unto them: and they were greatly distressed. 16 Nevertheless the LORD raised up judges, which delivered them out of the hand of those that spoiled them.

This included a military role although Deborah, in order to honour God, would want victory in battle to be ascribed to a man. Notice the difference between responsible for delivering and guiding the nation and responsible for leading the army. Deborah always had the God given responsibility to lead and deliver the nation or Church but a man was responsible for the army. Teaching and fighting is not the same thing.

The story of Deborah is found in Judges 4-5. Deborah was already an established judge when she summoned Barak, an Israelite General, to go to war with 10,000 men against Sisera. Israel would have been oppressed for twenty years by Jabin king of Canaan and Sisera his general. Sisera had 900 chariots of iron, and Israel had nothing to compare, so from a military standpoint it was suicide. Barak put his faith in her and not in God. He was not converted and apparently had no relationship with God. The story here is one of faith and Deborah wanted it known that she was not responsible for victory. Deborah prophesies that Israel will be victorious, however the glory will not go to Barak but to a woman instead because of his lack of faith in God and that is just what happened. Deborah was a competent and faithful emissary from God. Deborah brought the nation of Israel forty years of peace as deliverer of the nation. Barak bore responsibility for the army subject to her. So God, who says that there is nothing to hard for Him, could not find a man so He broke His own law. Never in a billion years! Can't happen!

Huldah

Some people claim that God only uses prophetesses when the men are jokes and a woman is the only man in Judah . I beg to differ. That argument is often supported by the story of Deborah but what about Huldah?

2 Kings 22:14 [KJV] So Hilkiah the priest, and Ahikam, and Achbor, and Shaphan, and Asahiah, went unto Huldah the prophetess, the wife of Shallum the son of Tikvah, the son of Harhas, keeper of the wardrobe; (now she dwelt in Jerusalem in the college;) and they communed with her.

Huldah's story is recorded in 2 Kings 22:14-20 and 2 Chronicles 34:22-28. She was contemporary with the prophet Jeremiah and King Josiah of Judah. When the Book of the Law was found, King Josiah sent his high priest and other officials to Huldah for an authoritative word from God, not to Jeremiah or Zephaniah, who were both prophets at the time. God did not need two or three prophets and nobody can argue against the faith of Jeremiah.

2 Kings 22 gives more details about the book. Josiah who became king at eight was attempting to bring Judah back to God and in so doing he started repairing the temple. In the process Hilkiah the high priest discovers the Book of the Law. Because Josiah was preceded by such evil kings Judah had lost knowledge of the law and needed someone to teach them! Huldah verifies the book and gives them the prediction that God gave to her: Judgement on Judah is certain but it will not occur during the lifetime of Josiah because of his humility.

We know of course that Josiah died violently so some argue that Huldah was a false prophetess. Josiah dies because he deliberately tempted God by putting himself in harms way despite God had warned him not to. The story is found in 2 Chronicles 35:20-27 but judgement did come to Judah after he died even though Josiah did not die peacefully. Huldah in particular shows that one of the roles of the prophet/prophetess was to instruct kings in the Church.

Noadiah

Noadiah was a genuine prophetess, at least that is was Nehemiah says.

Nehemiah 6:14 [KJV] My God, think thou upon Tobiah and Sanballat according to these their works, and on the prophetess Noadiah, and the rest of the prophets, that would have put me in fear.

Did God give Noadiah the gift of prophecy because she was the only man in Judah ? From the account it seems like she was a female Balaam.

Isaiah's wife

Was Isaiah's wife given the gift of prophecy because she was the only man in Judah ? The major prophet Isaiah considered his wife to be a prophetess.

Isaiah 8:3 [KJV] And I went unto the prophetess; and she conceived, and bare a son. Then said the LORD to me, Call his name Mahershalalhashbaz.

That brings us to the end of the Old Testament prophetesses. There is no general statement of superiority of men over women given in the Old Testament Church. People are given opportunities and they try their best to fulfil them. In any case the argument that is presented against women is not that they should defer to men but that they cannot participate in public discussion and cannot teach men . Who made that law? It certainly is not from God since He is the one who made the women into prophetesses and in one case a judge. He is the one who started the Church with Miriam as one of the three main leaders. If it is against His law then why did He do it? Is it the case where the God who said that there is nothing too hard for Him, could not keep His own law?

New Testament Prophetess

Anna

Our first example is Anna.

Luke 2:36-38 [KJV] And there was one Anna, a prophetess, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Aser: she was of a great age, and had lived with an husband seven years from her virginity; 37 And she was a widow of about fourscore and four years, which departed not from the temple, but served God with fastings and prayers night and day. 38 And she coming in that instant gave thanks likewise unto the Lord, and spake of him to all them that looked for redemption in Jerusalem.

Who told Anna to shut up? Who directed and guided Anna? How was she able to tell everyone the news by being silent in the ekklesia ?

The Daughters of Phillip

Now how about the four daughters of Philip. This, for one thing, shows that it is not a fluke.

Acts 21:8-9 [KJV] And the next day we that were of Paul's company departed, and came unto Caesarea: and we entered into the house of Philip the evangelist, which was one of the seven; and abode with him. 9 And the same man had four daughters, virgins, which did prophesy.

Now we are expected to believe that God gave the gift of prophesy to four women but they were to keep their mouths shut when men were present and could not speak publicly. They were apparently born and began to prophesy under the Old Covenant where the ekklesia was Israel but continued into the New unchanged. This scripture demonstrates that they continued to function as prophetsses in the Christian community because that is the New Testament 'ekklesia'.

Prophesying in the New Testament

It might be useful to consider prophesying in the New Testament as a means of clarifying some firmly held myths. The word prophesy here is defined as G4395; Hebrew propheteuo : to foretell events, divine, speak under inspiration, exercise the prophetic office.

Now prophesying by women and men in the New Testament did not happen by accident. When the Holy Spirit came at Pentecost it was recognized as a fulfilment of Joel's prophecy. In the case of Philip's daughters, that is seen as a direct fulfilment of what God says, demonstrating that He keeps His word. God features women prominently in the development of the Church but somehow men have convinced themselves that they are the only ones that He cares about. Certain things must happen before the Day of the Lord but not necessarily immediately before only.

Joel 2:28-32 [KJV] And it shall come to pass afterward, that I will pour out my spirit upon all flesh; and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, your old men shall dream dreams, your young men shall see visions: 29 And also upon the servants and upon the handmaids in those days will I pour out my spirit. 30 And I will shew wonders in the heavens and in the earth, blood, and fire, and pillars of smoke. 31 The sun shall be turned into darkness, and the moon into blood, before the great and the terrible day of the LORD come. 32 And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the LORD shall be delivered: for in mount Zion and in Jerusalem shall be deliverance, as the LORD hath said, and in the remnant whom the LORD shall call.
Acts 2:17-18 [KJV] And it shall come to pass in the last days, saith God, I will pour out of my Spirit upon all flesh: and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, and your young men shall see visions, and your old men shall dream dreams: 18 And on my servants and on my handmaidens I will pour out in those days of my Spirit; and they shall prophesy:

So young women are prophesied to be involved in the wonders of the New Testament under God so if yours cannot then where does that put you? An important part of that is prophesying and we have to let them do God's work. Let us look at what God reveals that prophesying means.

1 Corinthians 14:2-5 [KJV] For he that speaketh in an unknown tongue speaketh not unto men, but unto God: for no man understandeth him; howbeit in the spirit he speaketh mysteries. 3 But he that prophesieth speaketh unto men to edification, and exhortation, and comfort. 4 He that speaketh in an unknown tongue edifieth himself; but he that prophesieth edifieth the church . 5 I would that ye all spake with tongues, but rather that ye prophesied: for greater is he that prophesieth than he that speaketh with tongues, except he interpret, that the church may receive edifying.

This is a familiar scripture but let us focus on what Paul says in verse 3 about what prophesying is supposed to do. This tells us what anybody that prophesies is supposed to do. How can they do it by not speaking to men? We will get back to this scripture. Now some more on the same subject in the same Chapter.

1 Corinthians 14:27-33 [KJV] If any man speak in an unknown tongue, let it be by two, or at the most by three, and that by course; and let one interpret. 28 But if there be no interpreter, let him keep silence in the church; and let him speak to himself, and to God. 29 Let the prophets speak two or three, and let the other judge . 30 If any thing be revealed to another that sitteth by, let the first hold his peace. 31 For ye may all prophesy one by one, that all may learn, and all may be comforted. 32 And the spirits of the prophets are subject to the prophets. 33 For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.

Is this saying that women are excluded from consideration? It cannot because then in would negate Joel 2:28-32 and Acts 2:17-18 quoted above. The use of the male gender here is universal and inclusive of women. God has just told us that it was His intention for women to prophesy so they cannot be excluded. By the way notice how Paul expected the process of prophesying (which I claim to be in the category of preaching) was to be done. From verse 29 we see that it was more like a panel discussion with a moderator. Now getting back to the main point let us consider in context what one woman did as recorded by Luke.

Luke 2:25-38 [KJV] And, behold, there was a man in Jerusalem, whose name was Simeon; and the same man was just and devout, waiting for the consolation of Israel: and the Holy Ghost was upon him. 26 And it was revealed unto him by the Holy Ghost, that he should not see death, before he had seen the Lord’s Christ. 27 And he came by the Spirit into the temple: and when the parents brought in the child Jesus, to do for him after the custom of the law, 28 Then took he him up in his arms, and blessed God, and said, 29 Lord, now lettest thou thy servant depart in peace, according to thy word: 30 For mine eyes have seen thy salvation, 31 Which thou hast prepared before the face of all people; 32 A light to lighten the Gentiles, and the glory of thy people Israel. 33 And Joseph and his mother marvelled at those things which were spoken of him. 34 And Simeon blessed them, and said unto Mary his mother, Behold, this child is set for the fall and rising again of many in Israel; and for a sign which shall be spoken against; 35 (Yea, a sword shall pierce through thy own soul also,) that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed. 36 And there was one Anna, a prophetess, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Aser: she was of a great age, and had lived with an husband seven years from her virginity; 37 And she was a widow of about fourscore and four years, which departed not from the temple, but served God with fastings and prayers night and day. 38 And she coming in that instant gave thanks likewise unto the Lord, and spake of him to all them that looked for redemption in Jerusalem.

How did she do what she did in verse 38 without talking to men? When she spoke of him what was she saying? How many men are recorded as doing the same thing?

Now one group of prophets that we have considered is the female group of Philip's daughters, so it is prudent to examine what someone who knew them up close and personal in the New Testament has to say.

1 Peter 1:10-12 [KJV] Of which salvation the prophets have enquired and searched diligently, who prophesied of the grace that should come unto you: 11 Searching what, or what manner of time the Spirit of Christ which was in them did signify, when it testified beforehand the sufferings of Christ, and the glory that should follow. 12 Unto whom it was revealed, that not unto themselves, but unto us they did minister the things, which are now reported unto you by them that have preached the gospel unto you with the Holy Ghost sent down from heaven; which things the angels desire to look into.

Prophets taught the preachers because the preachers depended on them to know what to preach. Peter never said that it had changed and he knew prophets intimately. Were women prophets only supposed to teach women preachers? Don't you think that Philip would have highlighted his daughters as exceptions if they could not do this? Nobody in scripture has ever made a distinction between a male an a female prophet. Is Malachi making a distinction? When people who fear God get together must the women shut up?

Malachi 3:13-18 [KJV] Your words have been stout against me, saith the LORD. Yet ye say, What have we spoken so much against thee? 14 Ye have said, It is vain to serve God: and what profit is it that we have kept his ordinance, and that we have walked mournfully before the LORD of hosts? 15 And now we call the proud happy; yea, they that work wickedness are set up; yea, they that tempt God are even delivered. 16Then they that feared the LORD spake often one to another: and the LORD hearkened, and heard it, and a book of remembrance was written before him for them that feared the LORD, and that thought upon his name. 17 And they shall be mine, saith the LORD of hosts, in that day when I make up my jewels; and I will spare them, as a man spareth his own son that serveth him. 18 Then shall ye return, and discern between the righteous and the wicked, between him that serveth God and him that serveth him not.

Women speaking out

Make up your mind. Can they speak up or not? God created a situation in Israel where a woman had to speak for the whole nation. The incident has even become the subject of a national Holy Day.

Esther

Purim is a Jewish Holy Day that commemorates the deliverance of the Jewish people in the ancient Persian Empire. The story is the subject of the book of Esther, in other words God respected this act so much that He recorded it as part of His holy word. Haman, royal vizier to King Ahasuerus planned to kill all the Jews in the Persian empire. Mordecai overheard the plot and countered with strategy which depended solely on Esther. Esther was his cousin and adopted daughter and queen of Queen of Persia. There is no indication that Mordecai had the power to direct her in any way, there is no appeal to scripture which shows that it was her obligation to follow his instructions. Mordecai appealed to her because he could not demand it even if the whole of the nation depended on it. In remembrance a two-day Holy Day was proclaimed.

Esther 9:20-26 [KJV] And Mordecai wrote these things, and sent letters unto all the Jews that were in all the provinces of the king Ahasuerus, both nigh and far, 21 To stablish this among them, that they should keep the fourteenth day of the month Adar, and the fifteenth day of the same, yearly, 22 As the days wherein the Jews rested from their enemies, and the month which was turned unto them from sorrow to joy, and from mourning into a good day: that they should make them days of feasting and joy, and of sending portions one to another, and gifts to the poor. 23 And the Jews undertook to do as they had begun, and as Mordecai had written unto them; 24 Because Haman the son of Hammedatha, the Agagite, the enemy of all the Jews, had devised against the Jews to destroy them, and had cast Pur, that is, the lot, to consume them, and to destroy them; 25 But when Esther came before the king, he commanded by letters that his wicked device, which he devised against the Jews, should return upon his own head, and that he and his sons should be hanged on the gallows. 26 Wherefore they called these days Purim after the name of Pur. Therefore for all the words of this letter, and of that which they had seen concerning this matter, and which had come unto them,

The two days have since been reduced to one. Christ never offered any disapproving remarks against the book or the celebration. The story of Esther shows what Paul was talking about to the Corinthians. Women should be subject to their husbands but that does not mean to be mute or doltish. The original queen had lost her position because she chose not to be subject and Esther delivered Israel because she was in subjection to her husband and did not disrespect his protocols even though she was queen. There is no place in the Bible that supports the alternate theory that women should be subject to all men. Women have to sometimes speak out in the face of great peril and they need to practise doing so in humility just like men.

Chloe

Did Paul speak with women?

I Corinthians 1:11 [KJV] For it hath been declared unto me of you, my brethren, by them which are of the house of Chloe, that there are contentions among you.

Now you could argue that it does not say that Chloe spoke but why did Paul identify it as the house of Chloe rather than her husband or son if there was one? It appears that there was a discussion with the whole household which included Chloe.

The New Testament Church

From our examination of prophetesses it should be clear that in the New Testament God never changed The Law to exclude women from holding public positions of influence that would cause them to direct and teach men.

Do men always precede women?

There is another carefully guarded right that men of religion claim to have. It is this belief that men must always precede women. I do not know where they got it from but for sure God never expressed it as His will for mankind. It is true that there are social developments which support women being ahead of men. In ancient Israel it had a lot to do with property rights. In chivalry it stems from the concept of the weaker sex but the rest just seems to be abuse and exploitation. Ancient Israel were required to remain in their clan or tribe to preserve the territory that was assigned to them. The title was passed on by the male except when there were no males available. Chivalry is a recognition that females are biologically weaker and must be protected.

Priscilla

An argument that is always presented when making the case against women is that men in the Bible always precede women. God probably anticipated that and made a point with Priscilla. Wikipedia says of Priscilla and Aquila at captioned New Testament references :

They are mentioned six times in four different books and by two different human penman (Paul and Luke)[5] in the New Testament. They are always named as a couple and never individually. Of those six references, Aquila's name is mentioned first only twice: and one of the times on account of it being Paul's first encounter with them, probably through Aquila first.

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The references to them are as follows:

Acts 18:2-3 [KJV] And found a certain Jew named Aquila, born in Pontus, lately come from Italy, with his wife Priscilla; (because that Claudius had commanded all Jews to depart from Rome:) and came unto them. 3 And because he was of the same craft, he abode with them, and wrought: for by their occupation they were tentmakers..
Acts 18:18 [KJV] And Paul after this tarried there yet a good while, and then took his leave of the brethren, and sailed thence into Syria, and with him Priscilla and Aquila; having shorn his head in Cenchrea: for he had a vow.
Acts 18:26 [KJV] And he began to speak boldly in the synagogue: whom when Aquila and Priscilla had heard, they took him unto them, and expounded unto him the way of God more perfectly.
Romans 16:3-4 [KJV] Greet Priscilla and Aquila my helpers in Christ Jesus: 4 Who have for my life laid down their own necks: unto whom not only I give thanks, but also all the churches of the Gentiles.
I Corinthians 16:19 [KJV] The churches of Asia salute you. Aquila and Priscilla salute you much in the Lord, with the church that is in their house.
II Timothy 4:19 [KJV] Salute Prisca and Aquila, and the household of Onesiphorus.

Men do not always precede women and God made a point that it certainly was not so in the New Testament.

Phoebe

Phoebe was almost certainly host to the Church at Cenchrea and was the person to whom Paul entrusted the letter to the Church at Rome.

Romans 16:1-2 [KJV] I commend unto you Phebe our sister, which is a servant of the church which is at Cenchrea: 2 That ye receive her in the Lord, as becometh saints, and that ye assist her in whatsoever business she hath need of you: for she hath been a succourer of many, and of myself also.

The word used for servant here is the same word used elsewhere for deacon in 1 Timothy 3 and minister in most other places. Paul trusted her. Why did he not find a man to send? Were all of the male Christians fools? Now look also at the instructions that he gave to the Church at Rome: assist her in whatsoever business she hath need of you ; so who was the boss and who the assistant?

As a matter of fact, in this first chapter of Romans we see no indication that Paul is singling out men to be first but he is identifying those who were prominent in the work whether male of female and the order has nothing to do with gender.

Christ and Women

Have you ever known Christ to tell a woman to be quiet? You can't get a bigger man in the Church than He and there was never a hint that He was unwilling to listen to women or expected them to be quiet in His presence. Who's presence are you concerned about in the church? Who are you seeking to honour? When looking at Christ we must bear the following scriptures in mind.

1 Peter 2:21-22 [KJV] For even hereunto were ye called: because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that ye should follow his steps: 22 Who did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth:

Christ never said anything wrong or did anything wrong! He is the example. We need only follow others as they follow Christ.

1 Corinthians 11:1 [KJV] Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ .

The woman of Samaria

If God does not want women talking to men then He certainly set a poor example. In John 4 there is a lengthy discourse initiated by Christ. Jesus deliberately extended the conversation to far more than the essentials and went into personal details. I cannot imagine a scenario where Christ could not get around talking to a specific person if He wanted to. We are therefore left with the undeniable conclusion that Christ wanted to talk to women and saw it as neither a sin nor an inconvenience. He was neither cursory or superficial. He encouraged her to ask questions and answered them completely. He was not her husband so the question of women discussing with men is answered as an affirmative.

The woman of Canaan

Just to be sure that this could not be considered as an isolated case we also have the woman of Canaan.

Matthew 15:21-28 [KJV] Then Jesus went thence, and departed into the coasts of Tyre and Sidon. 22 And, behold, a woman of Canaan came out of the same coasts, and cried unto him, saying, Have mercy on me, O Lord, thou Son of David; my daughter is grievously vexed with a devil. 23 But he answered her not a word. And his disciples came and besought him, saying, Send her away; for she crieth after us. 24 But he answered and said, I am not sent but unto the lost sheep of the house of Israel. 25 Then came she and worshipped him, saying, Lord, help me. 26 But he answered and said, It is not meet to take the children's bread, and to cast it to dogs. 27 And she said, Truth, Lord: yet the dogs eat of the crumbs which fall from their masters' table. 28 Then Jesus answered and said unto her, O woman, great is thy faith: be it unto thee even as thou wilt. And her daughter was made whole from that very hour.

This woman was not even a Samaritan and had not the slightest connection to Israel but Christ had no problem entering into a discussion with her and helping her. All that he cared about was her faith which He tested first.

Mary and Martha

Christ also talked extensively with many Jewish women like Mary and Martha, Lazarus's sisters and Mary of Magdala. We want to specifically focus on Mary and Martha because we want to examine what He was doing at their house.

Luke 10:38-42 [KJV] Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house. 39 And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus' feet, and heard his word. 40 But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me. 41 And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: 42 But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.

Jesus was teaching. It was not the Sabbath but Jesus was teaching. Martha approached Him while he was teaching . He did not say that it was inappropriate but that she had her priorities wrong. So there is no command that prevents a woman from approaching a man while he is teaching and talking to him. As a matter of fact the context indicates that the opposite is the case. Jesus wanted the women to come and have their questions addressed and not be bogged down by domestic matters. Notice the kind of discussion that He had with them.

John 11:20-27 [KJV] Then Martha, as soon as she heard that Jesus was coming, went and met him: but Mary sat still in the house. 21 Then said Martha unto Jesus, Lord, if thou hadst been here, my brother had not died. 22 But I know, that even now, whatsoever thou wilt ask of God, God will give it thee. 23 Jesus saith unto her, Thy brother shall rise again. 24 Martha saith unto him, I know that he shall rise again in the resurrection at the last day. 25 Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live: 26 And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die. Believest thou this? 27 She saith unto him, Yea, Lord: I believe that thou art the Christ, the Son of God, which should come into the world.

These are not trivial issues and He must have spent lots of time instilling this understanding in them. Jesus had no problem being interrupted or queried by women in public. Any man who adopts a contrary stance is blaspheming Christ. It seems that the men of the Church today are more important that Christ so we have to make special arrangements for being in their presence.

Jesus interrupted His Preaching for women

Tell me what you learn from this extract.

Luke 13:10-17 [KJV] And he was teaching in one of the synagogues on the sabbath. 11 And, behold, there was a woman which had a spirit of infirmity eighteen years, and was bowed together, and could in no wise lift up herself. 12 And when Jesus saw her, he called her to him , and said unto her, Woman, thou art loosed from thine infirmity. 13 And he laid his hands on her: and immediately she was made straight, and glorified God. 14 And the ruler of the synagogue answered with indignation, because that Jesus had healed on the sabbath day, and said unto the people, There are six days in which men ought to work: in them therefore come and be healed, and not on the sabbath day. 15 The Lord then answered him, and said, Thou hypocrite, doth not each one of you on the sabbath loose his ox or his ass from the stall, and lead him away to watering? 16 And ought not this woman, being a daughter of Abraham, whom Satan hath bound, lo, these eighteen years, be loosed from this bond on the sabbath day? 17 And when he had said these things, all his adversaries were ashamed: and all the people rejoiced for all the glorious things that were done by him.

What I learn is that Christ is ready to address women's physical needs on the Sabbath while He is preaching, so then how much more would He be ready to address their spiritual ones. She did not even have to interrupt Him. He interrupted Himself.

Jesus did a lot of preaching on the Sabbath.

Luke 4:31-32 [KJV] And came down to Capernaum, a city of Galilee, and taught them on the sabbath days.[32] And they were astonished at his doctrine: for his word was with power.
Luke 4:42-44 [KJV] And when it was day, he departed and went into a desert place: and the people sought him, and came unto him, and stayed him, that he should not depart from them. 43 And he said unto them, I must preach the kingdom of God to other cities also: for therefore am I sent. 44 And he preached in the synagogues of Galilee.

One would think that in all of this preaching a woman would have asked a question and there is no recorded issue of Him rejecting anybody who wanted to know about the Kingdom of God.

The woman apostle

Now I suppose that if it is justified to use a weak scripture out of context to make a case against women then it is equally justifiable to do the same in their favour.

Romans 16:7 [KJV] Salute Andronicus and Junia, my kinsmen, and my fellowprisoners, who are of note among the apostles, who also were in Christ before me.

I say that it is a weak scripture because it is subject to interpretation. Depending on how you treat the ands in the sentence then Junia could be a female apostle (you can explore the long debate over the gender of the word but it is grasping at straws). By one interpretation she is his relative who had also been imprisoned and was in the Church before him. On the question of being an apostle he did not say that she was of the twelve. Where then could this apostle thing come from? Apostles are ones sent. The Bible says in Luke 10:12 that Jesus appointed and sent out seventy (or seventy-two) others to preach. I have more on this in my article on praying for our children. People assume that they were all men but it does not say that.

Luke 10:1-2 [KJV] After these things the Lord appointed other seventy also, and sent them two and two before his face into every city and place, whither he himself would come. 2 Therefore said he unto them, The harvest truly is great, but the labourers are few: pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he would send forth labourers into his harvest.

An apostle is one that is sent. These were sent. Paul was also sent, just much further. He was sent to all gentiles and as far as Rome. Is Paul saying to Timothy that God was wrong and her apostleship was illegitimate?

1 Timothy 2

First of all understand the context of this letter. It was a personal letter to a close friend not a thesis. He was not saying thus saith the Lord but giving advice on how to cope with the current circumstances. Timothy was in Ephesus (I Timothy 1:3 [KJV]) As I besought thee to abide still at Ephesus, when I went into Macedonia, that thou mightest charge some that they teach no other doctrine. He was working among gentiles. What was the specific concern? Paul's main issue was identified early in the letter: (I Timothy 1:7 [KJV]) Desiring to be teachers of the law; understanding neither what they say, nor whereof they affirm. They believed that they knew the Jewish law but actually did not. They were Romans with Hellenistic culture but thought that they knew the Jewish law. I would think that Paul would be attempting to emphasize what Jewish law actually demonstrated. I have no authority for this second circumstance that stood as a background to the matter except what is online like the results of a search for The Lives of Ancient Roman Women on https://roman-empire.net/ and the article Education for Girls in Ancient Rome from the website World History Encyclopedia , https://www.worldhistory.org/article/2629/education-for-girls-in-ancient-rome/#:~:text=The%20upbringing%20 . Education was far less available to women than to men and even when provided the goal was to prepare them for domestic roles and a future as a wife and mother. This is the context of chapter 2. One key scripture that is used in defence of subjugating women Christians is in 1 Timothy 2. It begins like this:

1 Timothy 2:1-9 [KJV] I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men ; 2 For kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty. 3 For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; 4 Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth. 5 For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men , the man Christ Jesus; 6 Who gave himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time. 7 Whereunto I am ordained a preacher, and an apostle, (I speak the truth in Christ, and lie not;) a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and verity. 8 I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting. 9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

Now the English word menis found 4 times in that extract but that is not how it is read in the Greek. The first three are

G444 ἄνθρωπος anthropos (anth'-ro-pos) n.
1. (properly) man-faced
2. (concretely) a human being (man or female)
3. (generally) all human beings
4. (indefinitely) a man, someone, one

The final one is

G435 ἀνήρ aner (an-ayr') n.
1. (properly) a man, an individual male
2. (maritally) a husband

So there is a subtle change in the context in the Greek which is not captured in the English. Paul starts out talking to people in general and then he switches to husbands or men. The same word is used for man in the final instance is used to refer to husbands in these scriptures:

Luke 2:36 [KJV] And there was one Anna, a prophetess, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Aser: she was of a great age, and had lived with an husband seven years from her virginity;
Luke 16:18 [KJV] Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
1 Corinthians 7:10 [KJV] And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:

Why would he switch from a word that always meant man to one that also meant husband? As I see it Paul is actually presenting another argument beginning with verse 8. He first says that we all (men and women) should pray for everybody. The second argument is introduced by the use of a different word for men. Paul now addresses the typical Roman male (which would be a husband) and then the typical Roman female which would be a wife. The Greeks had no word that meant specifically husband. Now why do I say that the intended focus is husbands and not men in some cases? Because (i) while from the definition it can be either, the meaning can never contradict the rest of the Bible and (ii) when it is in proximity to wife as it actually is with verse 9, it takes on the meaning of husband. First let us dissect this second argument from its foundation. Paul has started out here by talking about all people in general praying but now he begins to specify gender. Paul claims that the foundation for his argument is verses 13-15.

I Timothy 2:13-15 [KJV] For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. 15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.

The foundation for his argument is a marriage. Childbearing is what Roman women were raised for and educated to be. He claims that Adam was not deceived consequently Adam made a conscious choice to disobey. He ate the fruit. Why? I believe that the answer is that he did not want to upset the one that he loved. There is no concrete evidence for this in scripture but he had probably been created in the evening of the sixth day shortly after sunset of the fifth day. He had to see both nocturnal and diurnal creatures in order to name them all. He was considerably more educated having had his questions answered by God Himself. Any argument about how long it took before Satan approached Eve is pure speculation but is was sufficiently short that Adams education was significantly more. Paul's argument indicates that he was more astute and since the only variable is time then that time must have been used to develop his education. Adam would have been created with the mind of a child since he was created to be in God's presence: And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them, [3] And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven, (Matthew 18:2-3 [KJV]). He had to be taught discernment and that would have taken some effort. On the other hand both Adam and Eve were created on the sixth day according to Genesis 1:27-31 and so it had to fit into 24 hours. He would have most likely encountered the serpent and named it before in its original form as presented by Rejoice not thou, whole Palestina, because the rod of him that smote thee is broken: for out of the serpents root shall come forth a cockatrice, and his fruit shall be a fiery flying serpent (Isaiah 14:29 [KJV]) and again The burden of the beasts of the south: into the land of trouble and anguish, from whence come the young and old lion, the viper and fiery flying serpent, they will carry their riches upon the shoulders of young asses, and their treasures upon the bunches of camels, to a people that shall not profit them (Isaiah 30:6 [KJV]), which is the only form of serpent described in scripture that does not walk on its belly. Adam might have been curious and asked the question about the serpent before but Eve was not prepared for the serpent. When they heard God speak they hid, And they heard the voice of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God amongst the trees of the garden (Genesis 3:8 [KJV]). Eve was not prepared for the serpent but Adam was not prepared for Eve. He was lovesick. In the KJV it appears that Paul is blaming Eve but Young.s literal translation puts it this way:

I Timothy 2:14-15 [YLT] and Adam was not deceived, but the woman, having been deceived, into transgression came, 15 and she shall be saved through the child-bearing, if they remain in faith, and love, and sanctification, with sobriety.

Eve was deceived into transgression but Adam transgressed because of love-sickness. If they had worked together they would have been victorious. Paul goes on to say that she (actually they both would be) saved in Eve's childbearing. She had to suffer in pain with each child as part payment (Genesis 3:16). Also Eve bore Seth and her descendant Mary bore Christ.

Genesis 4:25-26 [KJV] And Adam knew his wife again; and she bare a son, and called his name Seth: For God, said she, hath appointed me another seed instead of Abel, whom Cain slew. 26 And to Seth, to him also there was born a son; and he called his name Enos: then began men to call upon the name of the LORD.

Paul has started talking about reproduction. Notice also that he says if they remain. Adam and Eve are dead. Paul is no longer talking about Eve but about women that are alive and to whom the same thing applies i.e those with partners. It is clear that Paul is talking about women in an intimate relationship not single ones i.e. they who are in a position to have children. Adam sinned because of his love for Eve, that is the strength of the argument. Genesis 2:23 in KJV is sanitized of the emotion but New English Translation reads this way, This one at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; this one will be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man. Adam was overwhelmed. The argument does not make sense if you just scrape up any female and any man who who have no bond with each other. Paul has started out here by talking about all people in general praying and now he moves to people in the intimate relationship of marriage. It appears that marriage amplifies certain proclivities that the genders have. Lets look at the second argument.

I Timothy 2:8-12 [KJV] I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting. 9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. 11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
I Timothy 2:8-12 [YLT] I wish, therefore, that men pray in every place, lifting up kind hands, apart from anger and reasoning; 9 in like manner also the women, in becoming apparel, with modesty and sobriety to adorn themselves, not in braided hair, or gold, or pearls, or garments of great price, 10 but--which becometh women professing godly piety--through good works. 11 Let a woman in quietness learn in all subjection, 12 and a woman I do not suffer to teach, nor to rule a husband, but to be in quietness,

There are two issues here and I will deal with the second one first and it has to do with punctuation i.e. removing the commas. Now verses 11 -12, Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection But I suffer not a woman to teach nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence .

Paul says in verse 8 when he is introducing the presentation on men (G435 Greek aner: men or husbands), without wrath and doubting or apart from anger and reasoning. He prefaces it with the context that he is talking to people in the Roman/Greek society i.e. gentiles hence his focus is on that society. I believe this to be more accurately translated apart from anger and debate which is something that requires a winner and a loser. In the marriage relationship (and probably any relationship with both genders) educated men dealing with less educated women (particularly narcissistic men who think they are more informed) tend to feel threatened and get angry and use their education as a weapon. In general it appears that men have a preference for problem-solving through action rather than information gathering and this may be enhanced in a society like that of ancient Rome. So what action will such a man take. The easiest is just say yes dear and appear to submit so that she will go away. Another is to project power through debate. Both are wrong. What we should do is together consult God and communicate in love. We see the general problem in men coming out with Joshua: Men don't read maps, men don't turn to God first, we always have it covered, so we have to take independent action. If Adam did consult God with Eve then he would have had a better chance of coping. That is the advice that Paul gave men. On the other hand Eve dealt with he challenge in the female way. She had no negligee to use as a weapon but she knew what was best for her husband whom she loved very much. She resorted to her weapon of choice to teach her husband, which is to use feminine wiles. I believe this because the Bible does not say that she talked with him about it first. She instinctively knew how to impose her will on him. This also requires a winner and a loser. Paul identified the types of weapons that women use when they want to teach and his emphasis was in marriage. Women should also consult God and not abuse their femininity when it comes to issues of reason and faith.

Genesis 3:6 [KJV] And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat

The three points that she noticed are (i) tasty and edible (ii) attractive presentation and (iii) beneficial for wisdom. From her perspective Adam could not see what was good for him so she had to convince him by using the first two, and possibly a bit more, to prime him up. Bear in mind that instead she could also have used her wiles to get him to talk to God. The wisdom is something that she wanted for Adam because that is why she took the food to him. She could have eaten the whole fruit or thrown away what was left, and why was she concerned about presentation? Because it was something that she could use. She believed that wisdom was something good for Adam and she intended that he would have it. The story does not say that She told him about Satan. When Adam was asked the question in Genesis 3:12 he did not identify Satan at all. Let us begin by looking at the meaning of doubting.

G1261 dialogismos.
1. discussion
2. (internal) consideration
3. (external) debate
4. (by implication) purpose

He is talking about starting arguments or getting into debate. Who usually start arguments (not quarrels) and get angry about situations? It is men/husbands. Now he goes on to speak about women but within the context of dealing with who is in authority over them. Which women have somebody in authority over them?

1 Timothy 2:9-11 [KJV] In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. 11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man , but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

In this passage woman is:

G1135 gune.
1. a woman
2. (specially) a wife

and man is aner as above. Notice again the word for woman is the same as the word for wife. Now actually up to this point it is a toss up which you want to believe. It depends on your heart. Either position can be justified by a strict translation, so why would you want to hold to the one that keeps down women when it contradicts (i)Christs attitude to women and (ii)the evidence of the rest of Bible? Christian means that we follow Christ's example, not Paul's. Now in order to justify their position on this matter people have redefined what Paul actually says but there are some things I want you to bear in mind. Paul is not talking about at Church services, he is talking about everywhere that people represent Christ, so if a female Christian doctor observes a medical problem with a man should she should just shut up? If her medical education would clarify a point of scripture should she just shut up? If she is a professional teacher then does she have to abandon her career? It is ridiculous! What Paul's advice actually tells women who have someone over them is to look modestly attractive but do not use it to seek to control the man in their lives by using their feminine wiles, even if you think he is an idiot, for two reasons. First, the husband was made before the wife in the relationship and might have more to offer than you think and second there is a historical precedent that shows it is dangerous. It is clear that this is talking principally about marriage because Eve has authority over all of her children, male and female, right down to us (Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:2). Only her husband has authority over her even though there are billions of men since Adam.

In like manner

In verse 9 when Paul begins to address the subject in question he uses the phrase in like manner . in like manner means using the same approach. In like manner to what? In like manner to verse 8 i.e. lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting i.e. with blameless hands and without passion and debate. The general context is that we all pray for people in authority even if they are idiots so women should pray for their men instead of trying to manipulate them. Paul started by talking about people in authority everywhere. This is the context created by verses 1-2. Paul goes on to show that he too has been given authority in verse 8. So the natural meaning would be in the same manner as we support those in authority in general, women need to support their men or husbands in general. Applying this to women's' husbands makes sense with what Paul goes on to say but does not if it is applied to all men. Men have authority as leaders etc. and husbands have authority but there are limits and within those contexts we must support them whether we deem them good or bad. We are not to add to their authority or diminish it but to pray for them and support them.

To teach and to learn

Paul is saying that women should not teach anybody anywhere if we accept the translation as man and woman at face value, consequently women can certainly never teach men, including their husbands, anything. Remember that the context is not public speaking, it is women in the Church. So Bathsheba should not have approached David about Solomon and so on. We have the infinitives to teach in verse 12 and to learn in verse 11.

G1321 didasko.
1. to teach{in the same broad application as dao "to learn"}[a prolonged, causative form of a primary verb dao "to learn"]KJV: teach
G3129 manthano.
1. to learn (in any way)[prolongation from a primary verb, another form of which, matheo, is used as an alternate in certain tenses]KJV: learn, understand

Infinitives are the basic form of a verb and as such are not bound to a particular subject or tense (e.g. no present, past future). It suggest something that is continuous so the implication is that it is a habitual practice i.e. doing it repeatedly. However you look at it, this only makes sense if we maintain the theme of within the authority already given to them. Men are not given authority over all women anywhere in the Bible but husbands are given authority over their wives. Whether the man is a dog (as in the case of Abigail in 1 Samuel 25) or not you should make yourself look attractive within the parameters of the Bible and give him his due respect. This may mean speaking up on his behalf. It then makes perfect sense. Even if he is a dog do not try to fix and control your husband but pray and quietly grow in understanding. This is what Paul is talking about in verse 12. Adam was a husband given authority over his wife Eve. She did not respect that authority and allowed Satan to override it but women must not allow every Tom, Dick and Harry to instruct them. 1 Peter 3:13-17[NET] says, For who is going to harm you if you are devoted to what is good? [14] But in fact, if you happen to suffer for doing what is right, you are blessed. But do not be terrified of them or be shaken. [15] But set Christ apart as Lord in your hearts and always be ready to give an answer to anyone who asks about the hope you possess. [16] Yet do it with courtesy and respect, keeping a good conscience, so that those who slander your good conduct in Christ may be put to shame when they accuse you. [17] For it is better to suffer for doing good, if God wills it, than for doing evil.

This is what all Christians must do, teach what is right in humility but Paul would be contradicting that.

Usurp authority

Let us add a little more to the argument. Verse 12 has a comma after 'man'. If the comma is removed and the words are translated as husband and wife then what does it say? But I suffer not a wife to teach nor to usurp authority over the husband but to be in silence. Now does that not make far more sense? Women in no period of history have ever been able to usurp authority over men in general, in or out of Church, so why would Paul be accusing them of it? In the Greek usurp is:

G831 authenteo.
1. to act of oneself
2. (figuratively) dominate

So it can be both but it makes more sense if it is translated as husband and wife; in addition it contradicts thousands of years of history if it is translated as man and woman. God has never put women in silence or subjection to men in general but husbands have been given authority over their wives only. Women have been required to teach even kings in the Old Testament. In the New Testament Paul commended Timothy's mother and grandmother for their job of teaching him. Women have been put in a supporting role to their husbands and should not abuse the role of teacher in the family.

If you look back at the definition it also has a meaning of to act of oneselfwith strong connotations of usurping power or to domineer, i.e. to set yourself up as the only one to be consulted or to act unilaterally. Notice that it is not saying that you cannot act just that you must consider that you have an authority to consult. This means that wives can also act but they must be in agreement with their husbands under God.

One place that you can find the meaning online is at biblestudytools.com website. Go to the
New Testament Greek Lexicon - KJV https://www.biblestudytools.com/lexicons/greek/kjv/. Type the word into the search bar and you should get something like:

Strong's Number: 831


Original Word : αὐθεντέω

Word Origin: from a compound of (846) and an obsolete hentes (a worker)

Transliterated Word: Authenteo

Parts of Speech:Verb

Definition

one who with his own hands kills another or himself.

one who acts on his own authority, autocratic

an absolute master

to govern, exercise dominion over one

King James Word Usage - Total: 1

usurp authority over 1

This is what Paul is talking about.

The word silence

The real issue that is still an issue today is that men have been given authority over their wives whether the men are reprehensible or not. To be misled into oppressing women is grabbing at Satan's red herring and fulfilling God's curse on mankind given in Genesis.

Genesis 3:16-19 [KJV] Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. 17 And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life; 18 Thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth to thee; and thou shalt eat the herb of the field; 19 In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return.

This curse is often used in support of domination over women but please recognise that it is a curse and not what God intended. In verse 16 God cursed the woman then He went on to curse the man. To suggest that God wanted husbands to oppressively rule over women is to say that God wanted the ground to be full of weeds. God wants the woman to be a help meet and a partner like Priscilla and Aquila. This scripture predicts that to the woman,

. . .I will greatly increase your labor pains; with pain you will give birth to children. You will want to control your husband, but he will dominate you, Genesis 3:16 [NET]

This is what God said would happen and even Christians have fallen prey to it. Women want to control their husbands and the husbands dominate them instead of nurture them. It is a horrible curse come true. The word used for silence here in I Timothy 2 is translated as follows:

G2271 hesuchia.
1. (as noun) stillness, i.e. desistance from bustle or language[feminine of G2272]KJV: quietness, silence

Now tell me which meaning Paul intended as an opposite to usurp. He meant without contention,desistance from bustle. Paul is saying the same here that he is saying to Titus.

Titus 2:3-5[KJV] The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

There is another Greek word for silence used in 1 Corinthians 14:34 which we will get to later. It is this:

G4601 sigao.
1. to keep silent (transitively or intransitively)[from G4602]KJV: keep close (secret, silence), hold peace

This word is the one that means not to talk.

I Corinthians 14

Now let us look at 1 Corinthians 14.

1 Corinthians 14 [KJV] Follow after charity, and desire spiritual gifts, but rather that ye may prophesy. 2 For he that speaketh in an unknown tongue speaketh not unto men, but unto God: for no man understandeth him; howbeit in the spirit he speaketh mysteries. 3 But he that prophesieth speaketh unto men to edification, and exhortation, and comfort. 4 He that speaketh in an unknown tongue edifieth himself; but he that prophesieth edifieth the church. 5 I would that ye all spake with tongues, but rather that ye prophesied: for greater is he that prophesieth than he that speaketh with tongues, except he interpret, that the church may receive edifying. 6 Now, brethren, if I come unto you speaking with tongues, what shall I profit you, except I shall speak to you either by revelation, or by knowledge, or by prophesying, or by doctrine? 7 And even things without life giving sound, whether pipe or harp, except they give a distinction in the sounds, how shall it be known what is piped or harped? 8 For if the trumpet give an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself to the battle? 9 So likewise ye, except ye utter by the tongue words easy to be understood, how shall it be known what is spoken? for ye shall speak into the air. 10 There are, it may be, so many kinds of voices in the world, and none of them is without signification. 11 Therefore if I know not the meaning of the voice, I shall be unto him that speaketh a barbarian, and he that speaketh shall be a barbarian unto me. 12 Even so ye, forasmuch as ye are zealous of spiritual gifts, seek that ye may excel to the edifying of the church. 13 Wherefore let him that speaketh in an unknown tongue pray that he may interpret. 14 For if I pray in an unknown tongue, my spirit prayeth, but my understanding is unfruitful. 15 What is it then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will pray with the understanding also: I will sing with the spirit, and I will sing with the understanding also. 16 Else when thou shalt bless with the spirit, how shall he that occupieth the room of the unlearned say Amen at thy giving of thanks, seeing he understandeth not what thou sayest? 17 For thou verily givest thanks well, but the other is not edified. 18 I thank my God, I speak with tongues more than ye all: 19 Yet in the church I had rather speak five words with my understanding, that by my voice I might teach others also, than ten thousand words in an unknown tongue. 20 Brethren, be not children in understanding: howbeit in malice be ye children, but in understanding be men. 21 In the law it is written, With men of other tongues and other lips will I speak unto this people; and yet for all that will they not hear me, saith the Lord. 22 Wherefore tongues are for a sign, not to them that believe, but to them that believe not: but prophesying serveth not for them that believe not, but for them which believe. 23 If therefore the whole church be come together into one place, and all speak with tongues, and there come in those that are unlearned, or unbelievers, will they not say that ye are mad? 24 But if all prophesy, and there come in one that believeth not, or one unlearned, he is convinced of all, he is judged of all: 25 And thus are the secrets of his heart made manifest; and so falling down on his face he will worship God, and report that God is in you of a truth. 26 How is it then, brethren? when ye come together, every one of you hath a psalm, hath a doctrine, hath a tongue, hath a revelation, hath an interpretation. Let all things be done unto edifying. 27 If any man speak in an unknown tongue, let it be by two, or at the most by three, and that by course; and let one interpret. 28 But if there be no interpreter, let him keep silence in the church; and let him speak to himself, and to God. 29 Let the prophets speak two or three, and let the other judge. 30 If any thing be revealed to another that sitteth by, let the first hold his peace. 31 For ye may all prophesy one by one, that all may learn, and all may be comforted. 32 And the spirits of the prophets are subject to the prophets. 33 For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. 34 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. 35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. 36 What? came the word of God out from you? or came it unto you only? 37 If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord. 38 But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant. 39 Wherefore, brethren, covet to prophesy, and forbid not to speak with tongues. 40 Let all things be done decently and in order.

Contradictions

The first thing that we notice even before getting into any details is that it contradicts the common interpretation of 1 Timothy 2. In verses 1-5 it declares that anyone that prophesies must edify or teach. Since prophetesses prophesy they must teach. Next Paul says that he wants everybody (women included) to be prophets. Then we reach verse 26 where Paul claims that everybody (women included) had something to say at Church. Paul did not criticize the fact that they all spoke but that they did it at the same time and created confusion. Then we add 1 Corinthians 11:4-5.

1 Corinthians 11:4-5 [KJV] Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head. 5 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.

Verse 5 takes it for granted that women prayed and prophesied in public because how can you convey dishonour if nobody knows. It cannot be talking about what people do in private. We know that they prayed in public because of Acts 12:5,12 where the Church prayed together at one house and also in Philippi where the women prayed in public at the river.

Acts 16:12-13 [KJV] And from thence to Philippi, which is the chief city of that part of Macedonia, and a colony: and we were in that city abiding certain days. 13 And on the sabbath we went out of the city by a river side, where prayer was wont to be made; and we sat down, and spake unto the women which resorted thither.

There seems to be an unspoken acceptance that this was not ekklesia(i.e they were not representatives of Christ) when it was only women. It only becomes ekklesia when men are there. So women can do what they want as a group but when does it change? When one man turns up, like Paul for example? Did all of the women have to stop praying when Paul came and pay homage to him somehow? I don't think so. When Paul spoke to these women then did they have to remain mute? We already talked about Anna prophesying so this is not an isolated incident. You may be able to dodge the bullet there by using some sort of double speak but you cannot dodge what Luke said.

Acts 21:8-9 [KJV] And the next day we that were of Pauls company departed, and came unto Cesarea: and we entered into the house of Philip the evangelist, which was one of the seven; and abode with him. 9 And the same man had four daughters, virgins, which did prophesy.

Luke was a part of Paul's party when they went to Caesarea. Philip was a Christian long before Paul but he was not sent anywhere specifically hence he was not an Apostle in the sense of one of the twelve. He had four daughters who were prophetesses (female prophets). How could they do that without speaking in the Church? Bear in mind the the Church is the body of Christ not the building. Any group gathered in His name is His body whether that body part is a finger or a toe. Luke clearly explained what prophets did in verse 29, Let the prophets speak two or three, and let the other judge. Was Paul a hypocrite?

Ask your husband at home

This may seem like prejudice against wives today but we need to understand the circumstances. It seems that the early church meetings operated much like the synagogue system which the Jews had. The church was mixed Jewish-gentile so you would want to accommodate both.

Acts 19:1-12 [KJV] And it came to pass, that, while Apollos was at Corinth, Paul having passed through the upper coasts came to Ephesus: and finding certain disciples, 2 He said unto them, Have ye received the Holy Ghost since ye believed? And they said unto him, We have not so much as heard whether there be any Holy Ghost. 3 And he said unto them, Unto what then were ye baptized? And they said, Unto John’s baptism. 4 Then said Paul, John verily baptized with the baptism of repentance, saying unto the people, that they should believe on him which should come after him, that is, on Christ Jesus. 5 When they heard this, they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. 6 And when Paul had laid his hands upon them, the Holy Ghost came on them; and they spake with tongues, and prophesied. 7 And all the men were about twelve. 8 And he went into the synagogue, and spake boldly for the space of three months, disputing and persuading the things concerning the kingdom of God. 9 But when divers were hardened, and believed not, but spake evil of that way before the multitude, he departed from them, and separated the disciples, disputing daily in the school of one Tyrannus. 10 And this continued by the space of two years; so that all they which dwelt in Asia heard the word of the Lord Jesus, both Jews and Greeks. 11 And God wrought special miracles by the hands of Paul: 12 So that from his body were brought unto the sick handkerchiefs or aprons, and the diseases departed from them, and the evil spirits went out of them.

In Roman society women were rarely educated and might be lost when it came to some relatively straight-forward issues of religion for most men of the same household or even Jewish women in similar households. If it were a problem for the men it was probably something that needed to be discussed openly. In the Jewish synagogue men and women were not seated together even when married. This means that for a woman to ask her husband anything she would have to shout so she might as well ask the speaker. Either would be disruptive so the recommendation is twofold, ask your husband and at home. For trivial matters this would be frequent and could be easily handled by the husband. It would not apply to unmarried women because they had no husband to ask. For further information you can look upMechitza which is the partition or barrier. It seems to be derived from Zechariah 12:12-14, And the land shall mourn, every family apart; the family of the house of David apart, and their wives apart; the family of the house of Nathan apart, and their wives apart;[13] The family of the house of Levi apart, and their wives apart; the family of Shimei apart, and their wives apart;[14] All the families that remain, every family apart, and their wives apart [KJV].

The issue of being quiet then in verse 34 is made clear. First of all the Greek word translated women is once again gune which we already demonstrated is also translated as wife. While it may apply to all women it is more likely to be focused on married women who had a husband to ask later. Notice that this is part of the topic of confusion in church (note verse 33) not female protocol. Verse 34 goes on to say that wives are therefore not permitted to talk (talk does not mean do public speaking). God does not intended for women to be subjugated, he created a help-meet. Men have abused their position as He prophesied in Genesis 3:16, Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee, [KJV].

As we previously discussed, this is a curse that came because of disobedience not a model for life, but that is how men have interpreted it. A similar curse is found in Isaiah.

Isaiah 3:12-15 [KJV] As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths. 13 The LORD standeth up to plead, and standeth to judge the people. 14 The LORD will enter into judgment with the ancients of his people, and the princes thereof: for ye have eaten up the vineyard; the spoil of the poor is in your houses. 15 What mean ye that ye beat my people to pieces, and grind the faces of the poor? saith the Lord GOD of hosts.

God said that women will have the tendency to want to rule over men because of Satan but he does not say that they should be ruled overby Christlike men because that is a curse and Christ does not treat his wife according to a curse. Look at what He explained to the same Ephesians that Luke was writing about in Acts 19 above in a letter.

Ephesians 5:25-33 [KJV] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

That is not according to the curse from Genesis. God intended a partnership not one abusing the other. Most Christian men have a sense of this in spite of the foolishness that tradition has encouraged, but when something supporting tradition is seen in black and white it is assumed to be true and some men relent.

Women Teach Women

Paul advises Titus to let women teach women. Notice the background to the letter: Titus 1:4-5 [KJV] To Titus, mine own son after the common faith: Grace, mercy, and peace, from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ our Saviour. [5] For this cause left I thee in Crete, that thou shouldest set in order the things that are wanting, and ordain elders in every city, as I had appointed thee. Titus was to organize the Church in Crete. Crete is the largest Greek island, and the fifth largest in the Mediterranean covering about 8,336 square kilometers (3,219 square miles), making it roughly the size of the US state of Delaware or slightly larger than Cyprus. It is a big place. Paul was giving him advice based on his experience. It was not an open letter to the Church. It was not written to example to James at Jerusalem or to the Church at Antioch. Titus was to establish church groups in villages and Paul wanted to ensure that they were stable.

Titus 2:2-5 [KJV] That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience. 3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

First notice that Paul distinctly states in verse 5 that obedience is due only to their own husbands. They have no obligation to other men. Why is this considered to be practical and useful advice? Remember that we talked about the 'Mechitza' or dividing wall in the Church. Women sat in proximity to other women. If the aged women took on the responsibility to respond to the questions of the younger then this would reduce the confusion at services and the exposure of the speaker because unmarried women would not have to ask or approach the speaker. Paul did not say that this was to be done only at home as some interpret it, but so that the word of God would not be blasphemed. It was to help married and unmarried women deal with scriptural challenges. It was to set the priorities of a young Church group. The letter comprises only 3 chapters and he also talks about slaves (Titus 2:9) and avoiding conflict with the state (Titus 3:1).

Silence

We are on the subject of 1 Corinthians 14 and you can see that here the Greek word does mean to hold your peace or stop talking. That is the issue which Paul was addressing. That was not the issue with Timothy and Ephesus. The book of Timothy has 6 chapters and the background is distinctly different from that to Titus.

I Timothy 1:1-7 [KJV] Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ by the commandment of God our Saviour, and Lord Jesus Christ, which is our hope; 2 Unto Timothy, my own son in the faith: Grace, mercy, and peace, from God our Father and Jesus Christ our Lord. 3 As I besought thee to abide still at Ephesus, when I went into Macedonia, that thou mightest charge some that they teach no other doctrine, 4 Neither give heed to fables and endless genealogies, which minister questions, rather than godly edifying which is in faith: so do. 5 Now the end of the commandment is charity out of a pure heart, and of a good conscience, and of faith unfeigned: 6 From which some having swerved have turned aside unto vain jangling; 7 Desiring to be teachers of the law; understanding neither what they say, nor whereof they affirm.

Timothy was at Ephesus and this book was written quite a while after the Corinthian situation. Ephesus was an established Roman hub identified in Revelation 2 as on the Roman mail route and the problem identified to Timothy (I Timothy 1:7) was that too many people believed that they knew the law but actually did not. The letter is to help Timothy to establish a strategy. Again it is not written to James at Jerusalem or to the Church at Antioch. Paul wants all these people to learn what Jewish law promoted as opposed to Hellenistic superstition. A lot of big-shots passed through there and so they could see themselves as knowledgeable. Notice Titus 3:12-13 [KJV], When I shall send Artemas unto thee, or Tychicus, be diligent to come unto me to Nicopolis: for I have determined there to winter. [13] Bring Zenas the lawyer and Apollos on their journey diligently, that nothing be wanting unto them. This is not the same as the background to the Corinthian situation. His letter was written to the church. Paul wanted those in Corinth to shut up. He used the following Greek word:

G4601 sigao.
1. to keep silent (transitively or intransitively)[from G4602]KJV: keep close (secret, silence), hold peace

This is in contrast to the word used in 1 Timothy which meant something akin to submission. In 1 Corinthians silence translated from Greek sigao is used twice in close proximity: (I Corinthians 14:28 [KJV]) But if there be no interpreter, let him keep silence in the church; and let him speak to himself, and to God; and (I Corinthians 14:34 [KJV]),Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. Paul's letter to the Corinthians was to address a matter of spiritual laxity that was exposed by their behaviour and one area of specific concern was prophecy. Paul's subject in 1 Corinthians 14 is not women but prophecy. He was not denying prophecy but insisting that, just like all other matters in God's Church it was to be orderly i.e. For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, . . . (I Corinthians 14:33 [KJV]). When you compare verse 28 to with verse 34 it is clear that Paul did not intend that women never speak but that they would speak less. In verse 28 He says that if prophets (either male or female) cannot prophecy orderly then they should shut up. Similarly he says that if the concern of a wife was not first raised at home (this assumes that the man at home was a Christian) then they should shut up. They are under no obligation to talk. Paul recognized that order would be greatly improved by arresting these two. Remember that we are talking about Corinthians (gentiles) in a Jewish type arrangement like a synagogue. Jewish women would be used to this and in any case would have been more educated in the scriptures from their childhood. Recall the story of Timothy's grandmother Lois, and mother Eunice being the foundation of his faith, whereas the Corinthians had no such background and they had lots of questions. The passage also claims that they are not permitted. This is another poor translation. Permitted comes from G2010, Greek epitrepo: which literally means to turn over to someone, and properly to entrust an executive charge to another (i.e. custodial care and management). It is saying that they are under no obligation to speak not that they may not speak. Whenever you feel the spirit you do not have to shout it out.

What Law?

The words they are commanded in verse 34 quoted just above, are added by the translators and are not in the original. It changes the whole intent of the sentence. Paul is saying something like Let your wives keep silence in the churches: for they do not have to speak; but they do have a commanded bond to be the subordinate with their husbands, as also saith the law. The Greek word translated as obedience is G5293 hupotassomeaning: 1. to subordinate and2. (reflexively) to obey. In other words the law commands that you be a help meet to your husband where you work it out together but it does not command you to talk in Church gatherings. There is no commandment or specific law that tells women to shut up. Paul is pointing out that even under they Torah they had no obligation to speak but only an obligation to be obedient to God which demands that they use the marriage relationship. In the wilderness they turned it around and were not obedient but indulged in that complaining and bickering which was a problem to God. Paul also saysIf any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord. This means that somewhere God must have given these instructions already otherwise they cannot be verified. Paul is not adding anything new. The subject is orderliness and that is how Paul sums it up in verse 40, Let all things be done decently and in order. God demonstrates His love for order. Genesis on creation shows order day by day; everything was created after its kind i.e. animals do not suddenly produce seeds; the Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to dress it and keep it; God changed darkness and without form to light and structure; He told man to be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it; animals going to the ark were sent in order; laying out the tribes around the tabernacle and in the promised land; moving with the pillar of cloud or fire; the rituals at the temple/Tabernacle; the Sabbaths and Holy Days; and in the writings we have Ecclesiastes 3:1-22 talking about a time for everything. He also demonstrates His distaste for bickering and inappropriate prattle in the wilderness. In spite of the clear focus of the chapter people latch on to two verses (34-35) out of context and make a doctrine out of it.

Talking or public speaking

By now it should be obvious that Paul was not picking on women but he wanted everybody who spoke needlessly to shut up. Let me introduce this segment by examining the definition of speak. All of the words in bold in the passage are translated from the same root word.

G2980 laleo.
1. to talk, i.e. utter words[a prolonged form of an otherwise obsolete verb]KJV: preach, say, speak (after), talk, tell, utter

we also have the following from another source:

Laleoto
utter a voice or emit a sound to speak to use the tongue or the faculty of speech to utter articulate sounds to talk to utter, tell to use words in order to declare one's mind and disclose one's thoughts to speak
taken from New Testament Greek Lexicon - King James Version

Paul is therefore not discussing public speaking but talking in general, especially when your talking is inappropriate. He looks at talking in general and compares it to God's standards for orderliness. Paul does not specifically address delivering a sermon-like speech. This raises the question of what the women were talking about? Christ showed that we should always be ready to help someone attain the Kingdom of God and He was eager to help women. From his experience Paul knew that the women were presenting matters could be handled by husbands at home? They were most likely not very significant otherwise Paul's example is opposite to Christ's. This happened before the letter to Timothy but the situation with the gentile women was the same.

Even today when we say that someone should not talk we we do not mean that they should talk under no circumstances but that their talk should conform to the universal norms for the situation. If I say that children should not talk in class it does not mean that they should not participate in class discussions or make presentations but that talking outside of the classroom norms is not permitted. Norms are things that everybody is expected to know. It is obvious to me that everybody understood that women prophesied and prayed publicly, as demonstrated above. These would be the norms assumed to be excluded from any criticism of talking, and as Christ demonstrated, legitimate discourse was assumed.

Cover Your Head

In Deuteronomy we learn that hair represents power or authority over a woman.

Deuteronomy 21:10-14 [KJV] When thou goest forth to war against thine enemies, and the LORD thy God hath delivered them into thine hands, and thou hast taken them captive, 11And seest among the captives a beautiful woman, and hast a desire unto her, that thou wouldest have her to thy wife; 12Then thou shalt bring her home to thine house; and she shall shave her head, and pare her nails; 13And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife. 14And it shall be, if thou have no delight in her, then thou shalt let her go whither she will; but thou shalt not sell her at all for money, thou shalt not make merchandise of her, because thou hast humbled her.

This principle is used in 1 Corinthians to explain that women should never remove their hair but that men should. A woman's hair shows that a man has authority over her and a man's lack of hair shows that there is no human authority over him.

1 Corinthians 11:4-16 [KJV] Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head. 5But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven. 6For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered. 7For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man. 8For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. 9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man. 10For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels. 11Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord. 12For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God. 13Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered? 14Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him? 15But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering. 16But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God.

The scripture is self-explanatory. Paul is talking about deliberately cutting off your hair. It has spiritual implications. If you have alopecia areata (AA) it is not a spiritual problem but if a woman cuts her hair in a male style it shows a lack of discernment. Paul points that out with examples.

Conclusion

It is unfortunate that men have taken two scriptures out of context to create a doctrine that cannot be supported by Christ's example or the Old Testament or the example of the Apostles. God has pronounced a curse on the people of the earth because they turned to Satan and rejected Him. That curse is not intended for those who have repented and turned to their Lord and Creator but Christians are some of the chief offenders in perpetuating this curse. Let us do our best to avoid it.